I was able to get a divorce without an attorney in arizona. I could not believe that my husband was actually going to be leaving me and the kids. I was so devastated, because I really wanted to stay with him forever. I just kept thinking about our life and our marriage, and I would cry every day. I knew that I would have to get over it, but I just did not know how I would ever do it. I moved to Arizona with my mom and my kids, and we started the divorce proceedings. My husband had to get a lawyer, because he lived in California, but I was able to do all the things on my own without a lawyer. I was so surprised how quick things went, and I was also relieved, because I just could not handle a messy divorce. Now me and my husband are divorced; even though it was sad, I think that it was for the best.